Write A Letter To Your Friend Expressing Your Displeasure

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Write A Letter To Your Friend Expressing Your Displeasure

Dear [friend’s name],

I’m writing to let you know that I’m not very happy with the way this whole situation has been handled. I feel like you took advantage of me, and I really don’t appreciate it. When we made plans for this weekend, I had no idea that you would try to pull something like this on me.

I’m not sure why you thought it would be a good idea to change our plans at the last minute, but it really wasn’t. And now we have to reschedule our plans for another time, which is going to be inconvenient for both of us.

I think we should talk about how we’re going to handle things in the future so that we can avoid this kind of situation in the future.

Dear [friend’s name],

I hope this letter finds you well. I’m writing to express my displeasure with the recent changes to our friendship dynamics. I feel that we’ve drifted apart recently and that you don’t want to spend as much time together as we used to. I know we’ve been busy with school and work, but that doesn’t mean that our friendship should suffer as a result.

I would love for us to schedule some time together soon so we can catch up and reconnect. Please let me know how this sounds!

Dear [friend’s name],

I just wanted to let you know that I’m really upset with you. I thought we were friends, but clearly I was mistaken. You’ve been acting really weird lately, and it’s got me wondering if this friendship will last.

The other day when we were hanging out, you said you didn’t want to go out with me anymore because you were feeling sick. But then the next day when I asked if we could hang out again, you said yes! That doesn’t make sense! It makes me think that maybe you don’t love me as much as I thought. Or maybe you’re just confused about your feelings for me—and that’s okay! We all have moments where we aren’t sure what we feel about someone or something else. Just remember: no matter what happens between us, there will always be a special place in my heart for you and everything we’ve been through together over the years!

Dear [friend’s name],

I’m writing to you today because I need to vent about something that happened yesterday, and I thought of you immediately. You know how I feel about [topic]—you’ve heard me talk about it before! And I know you have feelings on the subject too.

The other day, we were hanging out with our mutual friends when one of them said something totally inappropriate and offensive. It was so bad that they didn’t even realize what they had said until after they said it, which is kind of worse? Anyway, I wanted to tell them right then and there what they had done wrong, but everyone else was laughing and having a good time, so I decided to just ignore it and wait until later when we could talk privately.

But then later came around and we were talking about other things (which felt like forever), so by the time we finally got back to talking about what had happened earlier in the day, it was too late for me to say anything without sounding mean or making a scene.

Hey [friend’s name],

I’m writing to you because I feel like we need to have a conversation about something. I know that you and I have been friends for a long time and that we are pretty good at communicating, but lately it feels like we’ve been getting into some arguments that we never really resolved, and I think it would be helpful for us both to talk about them.

I’m not sure how many times we’ve gotten into this kind of fight before, but it seems like every time something comes up where you feel strongly about something, or you think one of us is doing something wrong, or whatever—you just kind of explode on us. And then when it’s over and done with, everything is fine again like nothing ever happened. But the last time it happened, I felt really hurt by your anger towards me, even though I know that was an accident—and honestly? It scared me a little bit. The thought of losing such an important friend makes me feel awful inside.

So what do you think? Can we talk soon?

Dear [name],

I’m writing this letter to express my displeasure with our friendship. I’m sorry to say that I no longer feel like we’re friends, and I can’t see us ever being friends again. I’ve tried to be open-minded about your actions and how they impact our relationship, but after the last few months of trying to make things work between us, I’m at my wit’s end.

You’ve been very disrespectful towards me, and you consistently fail to keep promises that you make to me. You’ve also been rude and condescending when we’re in public together, which makes me feel like you don’t respect me as a person or even like me at all! It makes me sad that you could treat a friend this way and not even realize it or care about what they think of you or your behavior.

I hope that someday we can go back to being friends because I was really looking forward to having someone in my life who could understand what it’s like for me right now—someone who knows what it feels like when life doesn’t go as planned and how hard it can be sometimes just getting through each day without feeling like everything is out of control.

Dear [name],

I’m writing you because I have some concerns about the way you handled [situation]. While I understand that your intentions were good, I felt that the way you handled things was not appropriate at all. It really hurt me when you said what you said to me, and I feel that if we’re going to be friends, we need to be honest with each other about how we feel about things like this.

I want us to be able to talk about these kinds of things without being afraid or defensive. Can we try again? Please let me know what your thoughts are on this matter, so we can move forward together.

Dear Friend,

I hope you’re doing well. I’m writing because I’m very upset about what happened at the party last night. It was supposed to be an intimate gathering for our friends and family, but you brought your cousin along. He’s a nice guy, but he’s not our kind of people. He’s so loud! And he kept asking us all kinds of personal questions that were none of his business. It really ruined the mood of the party.

I hate having to say this, but don’t bring him again if you want me there.

Dear [name],

I hope this letter finds you well. I just wanted to let you know that I am unhappy about the recent purchase of a new TV by your family. While it was very thoughtful of you to buy a new TV for the family, I feel like you did not consider my needs when making this decision.

I have been looking forward to watching the Super Bowl with my friends and family for months now. However, as you know, there is no room in our living room for a large television set. Therefore, we must watch it on our old television set which is much smaller than yours.

The result of this is that my friends and family will be forced to take turns sitting close together on our couch while others sit in the two chairs next to it or stand up against the wall behind them. This makes it impossible for all of us to see what is happening on screen at once without having someone stand up or move around so they can peer over someone’s shoulder or lean forward slightly so they can get a better look at what is happening during important plays or moments in time during games (e.g., touchdowns).

Please reconsider your decision when purchasing larger televisions in future years so that we can all enjoy watching…

Dear [name],

I am writing to you to express my displeasure with the way you have behaved lately. You have been acting selfishly, and it is not acceptable.

[Friend’s name], I know that we have known each other for a long time, but that does not mean that you can treat me like this. I think it’s time for us to part ways.

I wish you all the best in your future endeavors, but do not contact me again unless it is something important or you want to apologize to me for being such a bad friend.

Dear [friend’s name],

I am writing to let you know that I was very disappointed by your actions. You were supposed to be hosting a party at your house, but instead you went on vacation with your family. We were all looking forward to seeing each other and having fun. It is not okay for you to make plans with someone else and then not show up at all. It made me feel like we were not important enough for you to put time aside for us.

It is also unfair of you not to think about how this might affect our feelings when planning events like this. I hope that in future we can communicate better so that things don’t get ruined like they did last weekend!

Hi [Name],

I’m writing to you because I need to say something that hasn’t been easy for me. I’ve been thinking about it for a while, and it’s time to get it out in the open.

I’m not sure how to say this, so I’m just going to come right out with it: I don’t like your new haircut. It makes your eyes look small and weird and it makes you look older than you actually are. The only thing that saved the whole look from being a disaster was the fact that you had on a pair of cool glasses, which were pretty much the only thing about your outfit that was cool at all.

I know you really love this haircut and feel good about yourself in it, but I can’t help but feel like there’s something off-putting about it. It doesn’t match my idea of what “cool” looks like or what works for your face shape (which is actually nice!). But more importantly than any of that stuff—it just doesn’t make me think of the amazing friend who has always been there for me when times were tough or when we needed to have fun together!

So please take note…

Dear [friend name],

I know you’re busy, but I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know how disappointed I am. You said you’d help me move some stuff last weekend, but when it came time to actually do it, you bailed on me. And then on Monday morning, when I asked if we could meet up for lunch so that we could go over this project together, you blew me off again.

I don’t know what’s going on with you lately, but it’s really starting to make me feel like… well… like maybe our friendship isn’t as important as it used to be? Like maybe our friendship isn’t even a priority for you anymore? And I’m not okay with that!

I think we need to talk about this at some point soon—either in person or over the phone. Let me know which works best for you and when would be good for me so that we can make some time in our schedules and make sure this doesn’t keep happening again.

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